Vulnerable human being.

There are many vulnerable things about a human being. One of the prime things among them is – I think – the inability to be angry on a person for a long time in spite of being at the receiving end for a long time. There are, of course, people who can stay the same until a life time but more often than not, if that person is someone whom we have loved endlessly as a friend or a part of our day-to-day life, its kinda impossible for our anger to sustain long.

Majority of you might disagree saying it will depend on the intensity of the reason behind the anger. When I half agree to that, I still say when we come to know about that person in some sort of trouble or danger, we do tend to forget everything. Its an irresistible temptation to which we succumb under. Recently I have developed a thing for human psychology and thought processing. Every now and then I find myself reading about psychological aspects of a particular emotion or a thought process. Where I stand now is the psychology behind this vulnerability of being unable to stay angry on someone for a long time.

There are many more reasons than what I have found out. The prime reason behind this could be the \’need\’ of that person in your life. In a way its giving up the ego or may be allowing yourself to take you for granted. But sometimes it will be something beyond it. You stand for someone to take you granted only if (s)he means so much to you. I don\’t personally think someone would do it other wise. It might also because you value your relationship – read, friendship – so much that a fight is necessary every now and then.

The second reason I figured out is what I mentioned earlier in this article. When someone is danger, even if its our enemy, we often feel a bit for them unless you are cold blooded or the intense of hatred is too much. I don\’t know about the reasons behind this psychologically but I, for sure, know if the value for that friendship is eternal, these two reasons will stay at the top two.

If anyone of you are able to think about this more psychologically and come up with interesting view points, do enlighten me.