Hate.

Since the start of this new year, I have started to write an article at least 7 times. Nothing went beyond one or two paragraphs and words weren\’t flowing. I sat and wondered many times what is going on. Words weren\’t coming to me. I sat back, relaxed, tried again in vain several times. But today, I think I will be able to complete an article.

Most of my friends have told me how they feel when people bitch. Some of them even end up in tears which I never found interesting. My words to them were always \”Stray dogs bark, we chose to ignore them.\” I thought it work wonders on people but no, it doesn\’t work that way! People do get haunted down by the bitching and defamation no matter how much they deny. Like every human being says, only when you face an issue, you understand the intense and the pain of it.

Leaves me to thinking, why do people bitch about a person whom they know nothing about? What do they get from doing that? What sort of pleasure? You see a guy befriending girls and you call him a flirt. You see a girl befriending guys and you call her a slut. Its nothing new to people in the modern era because this is a trend which follows right from your pre primary days. Only, the words are different.

I think it was MS Dhoni who said \”you may not like me but hate is a very strong word to be used..\” It holds a lot of importance and meaning in today\’s world. What I believe is, you can hate a person only if you know him well. You can hold grudge or dislike a person from hearing about him or her. But hating him requires some qualification. Just for example, I used to have a strong hatred feeling towards one of my friend\’s friend for quite sometime. I found him really weird, violent and a spoiled brat. But one day I spoke to him, came to know about his whereabouts and it started to hit me slowly why he is the guy he is now. What makes him do all those. Yes, I still dislike his actions but I don\’t hate him.

Over the past few weeks, I am slowly realizing that many people whom I thought are okay with me hate me to the core. Unsurprisingly, they are my schoolmates whom I don\’t give a damn about. Having said that, it beats me to why they have this unfruitful feeling against me when they have hardly spoken to me. I have passed my school life way back and I am done with a beautiful college life already. Yet, this makes me a little uneasy because of the judgement people make.

Now coming back to the first paragraph, I had the positive feeling of completing this article because I was fired up. In simple words, turn all the negative energy to positive and show your haters what you are capable of. Having said that, I feel this isn\’t up to the usual standard I possess. Don\’t worry, this is a second entry to my blogging career and I will only go up!

Belated New year Wishes!