The practical woman.

I woke up at 2:10pm today, annoyed and frustrated by the pain my shoulder nerves were creating. I didn\’t get a proper nap to rest my body which was so exhausted with the Ayurvedic massage. Going on Facebook, I thought I will share my pain with the person whom I love the most in this world and hoping she could heal it in her way. When I shared the pain, instead, she told me \”You have to go through this pain. What else can we do?\”

For a moment, I was taken aback at the ease she told this. But when I thought about it later, she made sense. She made perfect sense. She could have \’romanced\’ then to console me and make me feel better but that surely wasn\’t going to take away any pain. Rather it would have been a temporary relief. Yes, relief\’s are necessary in one\’s life but temporary relief\’s can be more painful if nothing goes well. When I am typing down this, I have the inner feeling, I love her more. The inner me says, she is the kind of female every girl should be. You speak about different kind of ways to turn the guy on, but believe me, there is no better turn on than a practical woman who speak facts right at your face even if it hurts you. To be a practical woman, she doesn\’t require to have gone through hard times. Instead, you should see life in a more wider manner, in your own way. There are certain things which you can do and you cannot do. While focusing on what you can do, think about why you cannot do certain stuffs. You get some answers. Apply it in your life. That makes any girl, for that matter even boys, succeed in life.

Being practical doesn\’t necessary mean that you shouldn\’t give a try at stuffs which you think is a fantasy. You can certainly give it a try but make sure you have don\’t expect anything back. Be confident and have the faith that you can pull off anything under and off the radar but the more you expect, the more you get hurt and it discourage yourself if nothing goes by your way. This applies in every single field of one\’s life. Like Jaideep Sanhi wrote in \”Te Amo\”, I have come across many girls. Out of everyone whom I have met, there has been hardly five women who are practical. Its difficult to be practical always in life. But girls, there is no better way to turn on a guy other than being practical! It also earns you respect from every sort of person. Yeah, he might hurt you back and shout at you for hurting him when he is in pain, but later when after his anger settles down, he thinks and realizes, you were right and you were caring about him in the best manner possible. There will also be times when you girls inspire the guys and make you succeed more in life. If you are reading this, yes, you inspire me when you don\’t talk nonsense!