Random thoughts.

Every kind of relation has to be built in trust. It doesn\’t matter whether its just friendship or more than that or may be even the professional relations. Like everyone believe and say, trust is like glass, once broken, it is will have the scars no matter what. But there are some people who scratch the glass intentionally without the trust being broken. They wouldn\’t have a valid reason to anything they do under the sky. They doesn\’t acknowledge the fact they are not as matured as they think. In fact some among them are too kiddish. I have come across both the type; the one who thinks they are matured but they aren\’t and the other who accept they are kiddish.

A day back one of my very good friends happened to tell me that she doesn\’t realize when people are flirting with her. She is not an odd one out. There are many more who falls into this category. Don\’t call them dumb and kiddish straight away, it might be because they are too innocent! Being over innocent will look like dumb to a third person but trust me, you just cant make fun of them. In course of their life, such people will learn and shed their innocence somewhere. Anyway coming back to the topic, not recognizing being flirted is not a sin. I personally don\’t find this a big sin but there is another category which annoys me to no extent. When a boy tells a girl \”Oh wow, you have good eyes\”, the girl would reply \”Don\’t flirt with me\”. What the hell?! It was just a compliment. It was JUST A COMPLIMENT. Now, I would call this kinda people kiddish because they really are. They are more like dumb and brainless. They just don\’t know the differentiate genuine comments from the unreal ones. It is the case with many girls, especially, on many issues. Some lament upon a silly joke from the guy\’s side when he was actually joking or pulling her leg. Some whine about the sun set vertically months back and such people don\’t see how beautiful the sun sets right now. Another set of people like to believe everyone is the same even when they are not proved right. Oh yeah, there is one more category where people who \’follows\’ all the three above, belong to!

Why did I start writing this and what is the point I am trying to make? Well nothing, really. I was trying to mirror my personal life but I didn\’t want to go hard on anyone because I believe, that is not man-ly!

I will just finish this write up with two sentences and a quote :

1. \”Never belittle love\” – Preeti Shenoy

2. Never regret your past and let it affect your present because that would make you guilty in the future.

3. A compliment is not a pick up sentence.