Just another emotion.

Everyone must have undergone the feeling of dreams shattering down like a clown of cards. It can happen in many ways. Sometimes it happens right in front of your eyes, sometimes its through the words being said at your face and sometimes its through social media. Even people who hate films aren\’t strange to the news of story copying and all that crap. Its all a part of life and a phase of life. People say, such situations make you stronger and if such a situation arises later, this experience will come in handy. In such situations, friends come and tell you its just a phase and ask you not to be disheartened. Some others ask you to stay positive. Some ask you to divert for sometime and make a comeback. Some ask to keep trying harder. On the other side, some mock you with the incident trying to rejuvenate your energy but little does they realize, it hurts you more because it was a dream, dreamed together. No matter how positive a person is, it will take some real time to get back to normal life. At the end of the day, \”this too shall pass.\”

A blessing in such a situation is if there is a positive person around you who inspires you with words and actions. They don\’t divert you from what is going on, instead get onto healthy debates on the topic without hurting egos and makes you engaged. Its a real bonus if the same person doesn\’t get emotional with you. But like I said, it is not easy to rise from ashes. It is never easy to climb up after being pushed into a pit. The only option left is keep trying. You are mentally broken and all you see is blankness around you. You are disheartened and you feel isolated. But keep trying. You don\’t need license or anyone\’s permission to keep trying or dream big. Its your sole concern and decision. You can play around you as much as you want and nobody owes the right to question, not even your boyfriend or girlfriend if you have one. 

The tone of melancholy might shade all over this article. Like any other emotion or mood, sadness is also one. People try to eradicate sadness by being happy and trying to keep themselves busy in movies, music etc. But what I have personally learned over the first six months of this year is to just go with the flow. Experience sadness. Experience the pain of rejection. Experience the tears of dejection. Experience the love of being consoled. Of course, it takes a lot of time to come out of sadness like I mentioned twice in this article, but don\’t force yourself to be happy. Instead try to bring happiness out of sadness. There is a difference between forcing yourself to be happy when broke and trying to bring happiness out of sadness. Read the sentence a thousand times, think about it for hours and you will understand why I said so. Good day readers 🙂